if it is a public forum don't take it so dang personal

No seriously... if you post some crap on fb about how you love this hair color and i think it is gonna look like crap on you and tell you so... don't get all huffy... its my opinion... if you didn't want it then don't be my freaking fb friend... if you want to do it anyway then go for it... and if i think it looks stupid i will in fact tell you hey... blond is not your color you look dead... this phenomenon irritates me to no end.. i have certain beliefs about how people.. specifically women should look... your ideal might not be my ideal but who gives a crap anyway... no really... do what you want and be like HA i LOVE IT... don't let my comment get to you... don't let ANYONE get to you... be more secure than that in yourself... specifically you ladies... just love who you are and strive to look like what YOU want to look like not what you see on tv or in a magazine... unless you truly want to look like that and it is an attainable goal... i want to look like angelina jolie from hackers but lets face it that isn't gonna happen... i will continue to look like a cross between the cartoon daria and a morbidly obese midget for the rest of eternity... its cool i accept that... i accept that i will never be exceptionally hot... why can't all women accept that the majority of us will never look like who we think is exceptionally hot... why can't we think women who are built like Adele are super exceptionally hot? no really who said we have to have 6 pack abs or our thighs can't touch when we walk... i mean yeah i would love to get rid of the chub rub but who am i kidding i have had 2 kids and am lazy so chub rub it is... i have recently lost 19 lbs... and i am pretty cool with that... i am not out of morbidly obese and back into plain obese... but really who cares... am i gonna live longer if i get down to 120 and a size 5... probably not.. i will probably die from cancer well before the fat ever gets a good grip on things... so i occasionally eat mc donalds... yeah so what... and i have cut out soda for the most part cause well it is toxic sludge... albeit tasty toxic sludge still sludge none the less... and i have noticed a change for the better in some things since quitting the soda habit... so yeah... change and health and all that can be good but lets face it ladies... if you put out men don't really care what you look like... just watch jersey shore and my theory is confirmed... and well ladies i only judge women in 2 ways... is she bigger than i am or is she one of those skinny bitches... i am happily a large medium (not a fat psychic btw though kinda... i mean it is sort of fitting... anyway) i would like to get rid of my stomach and have it be flat and if i could hack these boobs off i totally would... too much up keep... and bras who the hell thought that was a good idea?! i digress ... the point i am making is don't give a crap what anyone thinks/posts on facebook and love yourself... strive to be what you want to be not what society tells you that you should be... and when you walk make up songs and incorporate "chub rub" into them